When It’s Time to Let Go

But You Keep Holding On

There’s a difference between knowing something is over…
and being done with it.

That difference lives in your body.

In the thoughts that revisit the past.
In the longing that still lives in your heart.
In the invisible thread that hasn’t quite snapped.

We don’t always hold on because we want to. Sometimes, we hold on because we haven’t yet figured out how to stop.

And that’s where this offering to you today comes in.

This is for you if you’re:

• Still checking their socials.

• Still fantasising about the version of them you wish they could be. (or the version of YOU, you wish YOU could be)

• Still waiting for a text, an apology, a change.

• Still trying to walk away from a behaviour that’s soothing something deeper.

It’s hard. Because you’re not just walking away from a person or a pattern; you’re walking away from the part of you that’s attached to it.

You’re saying: Thank you for what you gave me… but I’m ready for something else now.

That’s not weakness. That’s wisdom.

And it’s the kind of clarity that comes through real inner work.

🔒 Do The Work - Inside today’s paid section:

Letting Go With Love

If this post stirred something in you, if you’re trying (and failing) to “be done” with a person, pattern, or a certain version of yourself; this practice will help you:

✔️ Write the Goodbye You Need: A journaling exercise to meet the part of you that’s still attached; with boundaries & compassion.

✔️ Create Symbolic Closure: An art journaling prompt to turn your goodbye into something real, witnessed and sacred.

✔️ Begin Spiritual Detachment: A reminder you can carry with you, to make space between your inner wisdom and your old attachments.