I’d Rather Be Messy & Free

than ‘all together’ & ashamed. Are you with me?

We’ve been trained to be sympathetic to everyone but ourselves. We soften our requests, we hide our resentments and we perform a version of womanhood that does little to liberate us from our shame.

Aren’t you just fucking DONE erasing your own joy just to be “palatable” to a culture that doesn’t give two fucks whether you even like yourself.

Also, I’m tired of the “moral uprightness” that bypasses the actual experience of being a human woman. Are you with me?

I’m finally ‘coming out’ this year, not just as a queer woman but as a messy human.

I’ve invested 17 years of my energy travelling healing pathways, personally and professionally.

And guess what? I still snap at people. I still get triggered. I still wake up in the morning and would rather start a fucking fire than put my feet on the ground.

And…. I still love my life. Now, more than ever. At 50 years of age, I am the happiest & I’ve ever been.

I am loved now more deeply, with a right-for-me kind of love. My work is finding it’s second life & becoming more powerful. And I feel free.

Because I am finally, finally, FINALLY done upholding the moral hierarchy; socially & spiritually.

I’m done pretending to be ‘unbothered’ when some asshole crosses a line I feel I cannot defend without ‘losing face’.

I’m done softening my boundaries to keep the peace while I drown in frustration and the disenfranchised grief of not feeling like I belong in my own life.

Yes I’m coming out queer but I’m also coming out of the patriarchal, capitalist, hetronormative, neurotypical boxes that had me believing I had to be ‘palatable’ and ‘easy’, to be safe.

Let’s call that bullshit for what it is, a trap designed to keep us busy treading water in an ocean of other people’s expectations, unresolved trauma & arbitrary rules.

I’d rather be messy and free than ‘all together’ and ashamed.

That’s why I’ve created this offer.

Dive Club: Inner Life Skills for Late Bloomers & Messy Bitches

is where we finally stop treading water and start diving for the fucking pearls.

It’s for anyone tired of performing purity and ready to own the full breadth of their humanity; the triggers, the ruptures and the glorious, unpolished reality of being alive.

Register for our upcoming info call by clicking the link below.